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Amazon's Bestseller in Work Life Balance in Business!
Most Men Try to Fix Their Marriage the Wrong Way
You didn’t get married expecting to feel this disconnected.
But now she’s distant. You’re walking on eggshells. You’ve tried talking, being patient, giving her space - nothing works.
This book changes that. It’s explicitly written for high-performing men who want to lead again - not through words, but through grounded action.
“You can’t talk your way back into her heart. You have to become the man she can feel again.”
In This Book, You'll Learn How To:
Rebuild Respect Without Begging
Learn how to earn back her respect by leading calmly - not by overexplaining, apologizing, or chasing. She once looked at you like you were her rock. This book will teach you how to get that look back.
Stop the Nice Guy Spiral
Discover why “being the good guy” kills attraction - and what powerful men do instead. Stop trying to please your way to peace - this book shows you how to stand strong without pushing her away.
Lead When She Tests You
Stay grounded and confident when she pulls away or pushes back. When she tests you, it’s not to punish you - it’s to feel you. This book will show you how to pass those tests with calm strength.
Bring Back Desire...Naturally
Reignite passion without tricks, manipulation, or long, emotional talks. You can’t talk a woman into wanting you - this book helps you become the man she’s drawn to again.
Turn Conflict Into Connection
Shift tension into trust by changing how you show up, not by trying to win every argument. ou’ll learn the simple shifts that turn frustration into intimacy - no therapy, no long talks, just results.
Lead at Home Like You Do in Business
You’ve mastered success at work - now apply that same clarity and confidence to your marriage. You already have what it takes - this book will show you how to use it where it matters most.
When you grab your free book today, you'll also get immediate access to:
Regular LIVE Trainings
Coaching sessions with Doug Holt (the author) to help you apply what you're reading in real life.
A Brotherhood of Men
Connect with other high-performing men walking the same path toward respect, passion, and leadership at home
About the Author, Doug Holt
Husband, Father, Brother and Coach...
I’ve been where you are - successful in business, but disconnected at home.
From the outside, my life looked great. But behind closed doors, my marriage was quietly slipping away.
I tried everything I thought I was supposed to do: talk more, give her space, work harder, be the nice guy. Nothing worked.
It wasn’t until my wife and I hit a breaking point that I realized something powerful - I’d been leading everywhere except in my marriage.
That moment changed everything.
I stopped trying to fix her and started working on me. I learned how to lead with calm strength, rebuild respect, and create connection again - without forcing long talks or pretending everything was okay.
What I share in this book is the same framework that helped me turn my marriage around - and it’s the foundation for the work I do with thousands of men inside The Powerful Man.
Today, I’m blessed to live what I teach: a strong marriage, a thriving business, and a clear mission - helping men like you reclaim their power, their peace, and their place as leaders at home.
You’re not the only one struggling.
Hear from men who picked up the book, took action, and rebuilt connection, respect, and desire.
"This book changed my life. A read that is easy and relatable. There are principles in this book that I have heard multi-million dollar speakers share, but Holt takes all that wisdom and offers it in this book. If you are good at unpacking wisdom there are a ton of nuggets in this to unpack."
— Hoshea (Amazon Review)
"This book has changed my life. I see how I was failing my marriage and am in the midst of trying to save it! Guys.... it starts with us!"
— Kyle F (Amazon Review)
"Great book! Excellent breakdown Step by step process for REAL RESULTS. I recommend this book for every man! You will find ah ha moments throughout this book that will change your life forever."
— Brian F. (Amazon Review)
Frequently Asked Questions
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Is the book really free? What’s the catch?
Yes - the book is 100% free. You just cover shipping.
Our mission at The Powerful Man is simple: help men lead powerfully, save marriages, and change families.
We believe when a father is strong, centered, and connected, it changes everything - including his children’s future.
We believe in this work so much that we’d rather give it away for free than make a few bucks off the book.
When you claim your copy, you’ll also get access to the TPM App with bonus resources, alternate book formats, and regular live trainings with Doug. -
Can I get the digital version without the physical book?
Yes. Just fill out the form to get your invite to The Powerful Man App. Inside you’ll find the book in multiple formats (PDF, ePub, audiobook), along with bonus trainings and resources.
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How long does shipping take?
Usually about a week within the U.S. International orders can take longer, but you’ll get instant digital access in the app right away.
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Where do I find the live trainings with Doug?
Once inside the TPM App, go to the Events tab - that’s where upcoming sessions are listed, with join links and reminders.
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What exactly do I get when I order?
The Book – A Man’s Guide on How to Save Your Marriage—Without Having to Talk About It
TPM App Access – bonus resources + multiple formats of the book
Regular Live Trainings with Doug Holt – listed in the Events tab
Private Community – connect with other men walking this same path -
Do I need my wife on board for this to work?
No. This process starts with you, not her. When you change how you show up - calm, grounded, confident - your entire marriage dynamic shifts.
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Is this therapy or counseling?
No. This is coaching and leadership for men - we help you take practical action that reignites respect, attraction, and connection.
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What if my wife’s completely checked out or we’re separated?
It’s not too late. Many men use this when things feel beyond saving. Even if she’s pulled away, the tools you’ll learn will help you rebuild trust, clarity, and strength - whether she stays or not.
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I’m a Christian. Will this conflict with my faith?
Not at all. We’re faith-friendly. Many of our men are Christian. We won’t preach at you - our principles align with truth, integrity, and serving your family as a strong, loving leader.
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Is the community private? I don’t want my business out there.
Yes. Inside the TPM App, you’re placed in a private men’s group. Only members can see posts and discussions. You can share as much or as little as you want.
If you would prefer a digital or audio version of the book, then please request an invite to our app, where the digital versions are hosted.
