In this episode, we dive deep into society’s definition of how to be a man and what it looks like to create our OWN identity by investing in things that could improve our self, our health, and our relationships.

In this episode, we talk about how this feeling of guilt is caused by pressure from society. The demands that are placed on men by society turn them to work more and to be at work more. Men often fail to be present with their loved ones because they are working too much, resulting in a feeling of guilt and shame.

Working with hundreds of men, we have found that many of them are struggling with their sex lives….but don’t talk about it with anyone.

Oftentimes, we forget to detach and shut off from work.

All of our energy and the best of us go to our work during the day….and our family only gets the leftovers when we get home. 

Pay attention to the warning signs.

Because we get complacent, we often don’t notice that we are not being the man that our wives married.

If you want to live the life of a powerful man, it is crucial to know WHO you are and make sure your behaviors and habits are aligned with that man. 

In this episode, Tim and Doug discuss Tim’s conversation with one of the men from the brotherhood. He shared that this particular man has been hiding or living just to get by for the past several months after becoming a better man as a result of joining the brotherhood.

For the past 12 months, this guy achieved phenomenal things. To name a few, he landed a 6-figure deal in his business which is the largest in his company’s history, he reunited with his family, lost weight, is now picking up his kids from school and now has control over all aspects of his life.

Have you ever witness someone destroying other people just to gain more in their own life or business? 

Has that person ever been you? 

As men, we are taught that in order to provide for our family we have to work hard. Working hard then leads us to hustle, leaving us to think that we are doing exactly what we are supposed to do….but in reality, we are completely missing the mark.

We are taught to believe that when we hustle and grind we will become successful and this will make us happy. This is the idea of success and happiness that was taught to us by society.

Women want to be led by a man who knows what he is doing and knows where he is going. Part of it comes from feeling secure from the person who’s leading her. She needs to know that her partner is man enough to be a strong foundation for her and for their family.

Most men have the belief that to provide for his family is to provide “financially”. So as a result, he hustles and grinds every day to earn money but eventually loses himself in the process and doesn’t have anything more to give when he gets home.

Holding back from the things you wanted to say and do will HINDER you from being free from all the stress and anxiety.

You end up feeling trapped within yourself from keeping all the emotions and energy inside because you are afraid that people might judge and see your weakness.