Twenty years ago, I thought I had it all figured out. Fresh out of university with a degree in Electrical Engineering, I was climbing the corporate ladder at lightning speed, earning six figures just two years into my career. I had the car, the property, the lifestyle. On the outside, everything looked perfect. But beneath the surface, cracks were forming.
I lived by the mantra “work hard, play harder,” throwing myself into a world of relentless deadlines, endless overtime, and high-pressure environments by day, while nights were a blur of parties, late nights, alcohol, junk food, and excess. At the time, I thought I was invincible. That is, until my body made it clear I wasn’t.
It started with what seemed like an innocent bout of food poisoning, but it spiraled into something far worse—a year-long battle with debilitating health issues. My body broke down under the weight of years of abuse. I couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep, couldn’t function. Life as I knew it came to a screeching halt.
Doctors couldn’t figure out what was wrong, and I felt trapped in a cycle of hopelessness. The friends I had partied with disappeared, my family lived far away, and I was too ashamed to ask for help. Depression crept in, and I spiraled deeper into isolation.
One night, I hit rock bottom. I found myself sitting on my couch, holding a loaded pistol, searching desperately for a reason not to pull the trigger. In that dark moment, a vision of my mother appeared in my mind. I realized that my pain wasn’t just mine—it would ripple out to the people I loved most. That realization saved me. I put the gun down and made a choice: to fight for my life, no matter how hard it would be.
The road back wasn’t easy, but it became the foundation for everything I’ve built since. I took 100% responsibility for my life and immersed myself in personal growth. I studied relentlessly, devoured books, sought out mentors, and dove headfirst into transformational work. I explored everything from mindset coaching to body psychotherapy, breathwork, masculine embodiment, psychedelics, and peak performance strategies. I worked with world-class coaches and shamanic healers, and I didn’t stop until I found what worked.
Fast forward twenty years, and my life is unrecognizable. I’m happily married to an incredible woman, raising two amazing kids, and living a life of purpose, freedom, and fulfillment. I’m financially independent, live on a beautiful island, and travel the world doing what I love—helping men step into their power and transform their lives.
This journey has taught me one thing above all: nothing changes until you decide to change. I know what it feels like to be at the edge, to feel like there’s no way forward. I also know what it takes to claw your way back, to create a life that feels aligned, powerful, and free.
Today, I work with men who know there’s more to life but feel stuck, overwhelmed, or burnt out. I help them reclaim their energy, rediscover their purpose, and become the husbands, fathers, and leaders they’re capable of being.
This work isn’t for everyone. It’s for men willing to look in the mirror and face what’s holding them back. It’s for those ready to take responsibility, to push past fear, and to do the deep work.
If you’re reading this, my guess is that you’re one of those men. You wouldn’t still be here if you weren’t searching for something more.
The path isn’t easy, but I promise it’s worth it. You don’t have to do it alone. My mission is to guide men like you—to show you what’s possible, to hold you to a higher standard, and to help you build a life you’re proud of.
This is your time. Let’s go—we’ve got work to do.
