Episode #1112
The most common phrase heard from men after a transformational experience isn't about the breakthrough itself it's "I wish I would have done this sooner". In this episode, Doug Holt is joined by Coach Steve to discuss the profound impact of legacy, brotherhood, and the "energy" a man carries into his home. Whether it is anxiety, anger, or fear, the people around you especially your wife and children feel the frequency you are operating on long before you speak a word. Steve shares insights from a recent Alpha Reset where men from across the globe arrived in confusion and left with a grounded sense of self that their families could feel through the phone.
You will learn why trying to be "perfect" is actually a barrier to connection and how finding the "man in the mirror" changes the way you lead your business and your household. The conversation dives into the power of multi-generational healing, featuring stories of fathers bringing their adult sons and sons inviting their 74-year-old fathers to walk the path of self-discovery alongside them. These men aren't broken; they are simply refinding the version of themselves they were always destined to be.
This episode is a direct call to action for the man who has been sitting on the sidelines, waiting for "the right time" to address the distance in his marriage or the lack of vision in his life. From grassroots movements in local communities to executive teams using these frameworks to find a flow state in business, the message is clear: the world's your oyster, but you have to stop waiting for permission to lead.
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Doug Holt 0:00
But we forget that the energy that we carry with us can be felt by others and the people around us. My son needs to go through this. What they've chosen to do is live their life in such a manner that other people want.
Steve 0:13
Man, the world's your oyster. Just go out and make it happen.
Doug Holt 0:16
I wish I would have done this sooner.
Steve 0:19
Don't wait for anybody to give you permission. Just go do it.
Doug Holt 0:23
Man, you guys really care.
Doug Holt 0:36
Hey guys, welcome back to another episode of the TPM Show. Today, I am joined by Coach Steve, and today we're going to talk about legacy, we're going to talk about Brotherhood, and we're going to get some insights from Coach that he hasn't shared yet. Steve, thanks for being here, man.
Steve 0:52
Thanks, man. It's awesome.
Doug Holt 0:54
You're fresh off of leading an Alpha Reset.
Steve
Yeah.
Doug Holt
You've taken 11 men from just confusion, questioning things, and I had the opportunity, which I did today, of meeting those 11 guys as they walked out. They are smiling ear to ear.
Steve 1:13
Oh my God, yeah. You heard the story. One of the guys, he called and talked to his girlfriend, and she could feel it. She could feel the smile, right? And then he had a call into his ex-wife, and actually in their family chat he had a picture, and he says it's the first time in like six months that his ex-wife had said anything in their family chat. He says, “Looking pretty good.” He's got a dilemma on his hands now. He's got this girlfriend, and maybe the ex-wife wants some of the action too.
Doug Holt 2:00
Probably. But he's in the driver's seat, and that's 100%. All these guys. I think a lot of people forget, we all experience it in one way or the other, but we forget that the energy that we carry with us can be felt by others and the people around us. And that could be anxiety, could be anger, could be fear, could be happiness. And so when these men go through this kind of transformational process and they find the man in the mirror, so to speak, that they've always been destined to be, they can't help but be beaming ear to ear because they just feel good.
Steve 2:34
Yeah, 100%. Another guy was talking to his wife, who he separated with, that's in Birmingham, England, and he just said, “I just talked to her like I am the man.” And oh my God, her response was amazing. And she's thousands of miles away over a phone line, and she could just sense the energy and feeling. That's just incredible.
Doug Holt 3:00
You can tune into any frequency, right? And it's easy to say and be cognitive about, but to experience and embody that is something these guys will never forget.
Steve 3:10
Oh, absolutely. Never forget. Yeah, and learning that there's no shortcuts. And that's one of the guys who had experienced a similar thing with the aid of something else, right, that wasn't in him. And he experienced, he said day three after the morning session, “I never knew I could have that experience in my body without some way to help me get there.”
Doug Holt 3:44
And I just know what you're talking about. I've talked about it. It's plant medicine, right? And once you figure out that that's always been inside of you, then you have more ownership of it, more control. It's a reliability feeling that gives the man the, “I don't have to go out and do this thing, ayahuasca, mushrooms, whatever people might be using, ketamine treatments to help me. Oh, I have this. I am grounded now, and I could be grounded tomorrow, and the next day, and the next year.”
Steve 4:20
And the other interesting thing, this man, as many of us do, this man struggled with perfection, right? “Gotta be perfect. Gotta be perfect.” And what he learned through this experience was he is just perfect in himself. And he was using that to try to be more perfect. No, you're perfect. There's no more perfect. You are already perfect. And that was just light bulb went on, and he's like, “Oh yeah, I don't need to be more perfect. I just need to be perfect in myself.”
Doug Holt 4:55
Well, it's something I hear from so many guys. I don't know if you heard it at this Alpha Reset. “I'm broken,” right? You hear that so often. And guys listening to this, I'm going to tell you right now, you are not broken. You're not broken at all. You just need to refind yourself. That's right, who you are.
And being led by a coach like you, these men had the opportunity of finding that guy in the mirror. And I can tell you, doing this before, all 11 of those men got beyond where they thought was even possible. You have this idea coming to an event of what it could be because they hear about it from the other men, the other men that came before them. And everybody asks about what happens at the Alpha Reset, and the men choose not to share it with the other men because they want to make sure they have the experience.
So life-changing. In fact, you even had two guys that came back on their own accord to volunteer to make this experience good, free up your time as a coach and Coach Neil, so you guys could love on these guys and give them your energy.
Steve 5:58
Yeah, it was so heartwarming, Doug. One of the guys who came back was at my first TAR with you. He was a participant. And the other man was just in a TAR about two months ago.
For one of them, it was on very short notice. We had another man who was planning to be here, but he got injured. So I called up Marshall. I’m like, “Hey, Marshall, any chance you could drop everything you have in the next two weeks and come join us?” He was like, “Done. Right now. Don’t even think about it. Schedule’s clear.”
So to me, there were two things. One is the value of the experience, that they want to come back and support other men. And then, for me, I was just incredibly honored that they wanted to come serve with me.
Now that I’ve done, since we did that first one in December of ’24 together, about eight or nine since then, I’m starting to see patterns. I’m starting to build up, I’ll say, build up a tribe. I don’t care how it sounds. I’m building guys that I can count on, and I know want to come back and serve, and want to come serve with me, which makes me feel really good. It’s relationships.
So having both Peter and Marshall was just absolutely amazing. And they’re not the first guys that have answered the call who’ve actually been in The Alpha Reset as participants.
The other super cool thing was we had the youngest member I’ve ever had in an The Alpha Reset at this one. And the reason he was here was because his father was here a few months ago. And his father got so much out of the experience and trusted us so much, trusted The Powerful Man, trusted this process, that he said, “My son needs to go through this.”
Doug Holt 8:18
We hear that a lot, and it’s awesome to witness and to see. Because the number one thing I hear, Steve, from every single participant is, “I wish I would have done this sooner.” Every single time.
And that’s with anything that’s life-changing or great in your life. People who exercise say, “I wish I would have started sooner.”
To see this father go to his son, and I don’t know how the conversation went with his son, but I would imagine the son sees his dad change. The son’s now a young man in his early 20s. And then he goes to an event like this, not eyes wide shut, but probably not knowing as much.
I had the honor of meeting him this morning and giving him a hug. And man, can you imagine the bond and the things that that father and son… It’s like a refresh or a new beginning for them in which to take on life together.
Steve 9:20
And they now have the ability to communicate in a different way. Yes. Communicate from their hearts to their hearts. So I think that’s probably a lot of why James wanted James to do it, so they could take their relationship to a higher level. I’m guessing. I haven’t talked to them.
Doug Holt
They’re both named James, just for clarification.
Steve 9:43
Yeah. And the other thing you said is, you’re never too young. At first, as you would expect, he felt intimidated. He’s around guys who are twice his age. “What possibly could I provide of value to these guys?”
And they’re like, “No, no, no, James, we need to hear from you.” You’re in this. You’re participating. We’re learning from you. Not only for us to communicate with our spouses and our inner selves. We have kids your age too.
It’s so valuable to feel the struggles they’re feeling and remember what it was like, and not to judge. Like you said, it’s never too late, never too early. Just do it. When you’re called to do it, you do it.
Doug Holt 10:41
Well, we have men in their 70s that go through, and it’s, “I’m too old, I’m too young, I’m too fat, I’m too skinny, I’m too whatever.” We have more in common than not. Everybody knows this cognitively, but you and I have a ton of data points right now. We’ve done this for so long and with so many men that you go, okay, you guys are mostly alike. And there are a few subtle differences.
And I can tell you, those subtle differences don’t matter. They just don’t. You had a guy from the UK here. You had a guy from San Francisco here. Those two individuals, 99.9% similarities. But people tend to focus on the point one.
Steve 11:28
100%. Speaking of older, I also had the privilege of one of the oldest guys, about two TARs ago, was 74. Rick, who was invited by his son to go through the process.
So Walt went through the process and is in The Brotherhood. He was like, “My dad needs to do this. He’s 74, and he needs to do this.” And he did it. It was incredible. He was living in Mexico at the time, flew up from Mexico, and went all in.
It’s just so beautiful that they now have this opportunity to connect at this different level as father and son. And the trust.
Doug Holt 12:21
It’s huge, man. When my dad got to a certain age, he wanted to connect with my brothers and me. And he still has such a difficult time opening up and communicating. The intent’s there. The desire’s there. I’ve had conversations with him.
I believe he’s looking at the end right in front of him, and now he’s sitting there with regrets of the conversations he could have had, should have had.
I think a lot of us walk around with that. It’s almost like a little fear or trepidation of not knowing how to do it. Am I going to do this wrong? What are they going to say? Rejection. We put a lot of weight in the relationships.
But imagine the richness that people could have if they start this anytime. Starting as young as James and James have started, or the richness that Walt is going to have, son and then father in his 70s. I don’t know how long he’s going to live. I hope for a very long time and that it’s very fruitful.
Either way, they’re going to have this connection and bond, this breakthrough, and the conversations that matter. That’s going to make all the difference in the world.
Steve 13:37
Yeah, yeah. And the legacy they’re leaving from one to the next to the next, it just warms my heart. And if more people had this opportunity, they just don’t even know how much it would enrich their lives to let go of the perfectionism and just be imperfect in themselves.
Doug Holt 14:05
I think a lot of people just don’t think about it, right? So you mentioned James. We hear it a lot. I was at one of the last Alpha Resets and heard about this in Japan at our event. Guys go, “I wish my son could go through this.” Or, “My business partner needs this.” I hear this all the time.
Well, okay, have you mentioned it to your son? Have you mentioned it to your business partner? “Well, no, not yet.” That’s the missed opportunity. That’s the shot not taken.
We’ve only allowed two men ever to go through The Alpha Reset twice. One of the guys, his name is Mike. He went through a second time because he wanted to walk alongside his brother’s journey. Not a dry eye in the room. The brother was, I think, two years older. This was when we did one in Wales, maybe six years ago at this point.
The older brother saw what changed in the younger brother. He went through The Activation Method, our flagship program, then the Alpha Reset, our first level transformational experience. And the older brother wanted what his younger brother had. How cool is it to have an older brother look at a younger brother and say, “I want what you have,” and the younger brother say, “I’ll walk alongside that journey with you”?
Steve 15:45
Yeah, for sure. And the other thing I’m seeing, because I’ve done a few of these now, is one guy will come, then he’ll tell another guy, who brings another guy. Corey was here this week on the invitation of Brian.
Doug Holt 16:10
Hey guys, I just want to share something with you. I’m sure we can both agree that in order to fix something, you need to know what’s broken. And not only know what’s broken, but have a step-by-step methodology on how you can fix it. That’s the easiest way to do it, right? Otherwise, you’re going to be toiling with things.
That’s why I created a free training, a training that not only shows you how you got to where you are, where your relationship is missing that love, respect, admiration, and even intimacy that it used to have, but how you get it back. How do you retain that where your wife’s looking at you the same way she used to look at you when she said, “I do”?
I don’t know about you, but for me, when my wife looks at me like I’m her man, that feels like I can conquer the world. And I want that for you. Simply go over to https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. That’s https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. I have a free video training for you. You can just click play and see if this resonates for you. Now back to the podcast.
Steve 17:11
Corey was on the invitation of Gary. We all know Gary. And the outreach they’re doing up in the Spokane area, actually the Moscow area, it’s grassroots. Let’s meet. Let’s introduce what we’re doing to people. Let’s open some eyes. Imagine what the possibilities might be. Extend the invitation and just work with the men.
I’m seeing that more and more where they’re coming ready to do the work. They’ve been primed by some very great men who’ve walked before them in the same program.
Doug Holt 18:08
Yeah, there are several men doing this throughout the country right now. Gary does it through his church, and that’s where a lot of these guys are coming together. Gary is such a lighthouse. I had the honor of doing his Alpha Reset, maybe four or five years ago.
It was amazing to see that man come out the other side and see his journey with Heather, his partner, who’s also an amazing woman. What they’ve chosen to do is live their life in such a manner that other people want some. Actions speak louder than words.
We call it the lighthouse. Be the lighthouse that shines so bright that when other people are in their darkness, they can see. Gary’s chosen to use the frameworks within TPM to do that. Some of these men feel called to come into TPM and join The Brotherhood or the one-year mastermind program and still walk alongside Gary.
In Moscow, Idaho, he’s shining that light everywhere. He’s helped so many men. And as you know, in my marriage at least, that bleeds over to my wife. With these men, it bleeds over into their wives and into their children.
That always pulls on my heartstrings. We have raw conversations at these events. A lot of guys will say, “I don’t have a connection with my daughter or my son.” And to have these men come home and have that child feel the love of their father, maybe for the first real time ever, it fills me with so much joy that we’re able to give that opportunity to those kids.
Steve 20:03
Well, you're cheering me up thinking about it because we just sent, I think, 10 of the 11 guys that have children back to their children. They're in flight right now. They're traveling. And yeah, I can't wait for them.
Doug Holt 20:18
Man, that’s part of the relationship. And you stay in contact with them. Steve, you’ve led them. You’ve walked alongside them. I think that’s a difference that people get to understand about our coaches and our program. We walk alongside the men. We don’t walk in front of them and lead them. We don’t walk behind them and tell them what to do. We walk alongside them in the journey.
You have all the knowledge, the experience, you’ve checked all the boxes. And what else you have is you’re willing to get in the mud with them, so to speak.
Steve 20:51
Yeah, that’s one of the great parts about it, honestly.
Doug Holt 20:55
And that’s why they trust you. You’re like, “Hey, I’m willing to get into that. You get in the mud, I’m going to get in with you.” When I say mud, I’m talking metaphorically. You’re safe. I’ve got you.
Steve 21:08
I tell guys, I get to do this five or more times a year. It’s a privilege. And I come back to Robin that much better of a husband. I come back to my three kids that much better of a father. And now, as you know, in the last six to nine months, I’ve got three grandkids that I get to come back to, and friends. And it’s noticeable. If you were to have Robin here, she would share that it’s noticeable.
Doug Holt 21:45
We’ll have her here soon. This is why Aaron has no problem with me going either. Iron sharpens iron. You’re the product of the people you spend the most time with. When you’re consistently in the conversation about whatever it is, you’re going to move more toward that direction of what that thing is.
If your walk is your walk with Christ, then you should be going to church or reading the Bible or whatever it is. I’m not picking on that. I’m just using it as an example. You’ll become closer to that. If your walk is about being a better father, a better husband, a better man, then you need to be in the conversation.
Better than the conversation is being buried in the experience around other men who either have come before you and successfully achieved that path, and equally important, men who are on the same path. I also like the third group, guys who are a little bit behind you, because you can mentor them. You have a mentorship chain, and everybody benefits from that.
Steve 22:50
Yeah, there were times when I was walking with the men. There were probably times when they saw me walking ahead of them. And there certainly were times when I was looking at it and going, “I’ve got something to learn here.”
Like, this guy just showed me something that was a blind spot for me or an area I hadn’t tapped into. And then it hit me, and that’s where my growth happens.
Like you said, you’re not perfect. Robin would probably tell you that. We get together in a month, I’m going to start giving her margaritas.
Doug Holt 23:26
That’s exactly it. I was talking to the guys in there, and again we go back to the father and son example. When you’re there and you’re hearing the stories and people are sharing, you’re reminding yourself. You get a remembrance, is what I call it.
Like, “Ooh, you know what? I slipped back into that old pattern.” That’s where the repetition comes in. That’s where the community comes in.
The men call this a movement. I love that because technically it’s a business, it’s a coaching group, but it’s more of a movement. These men are out there. That’s why guys like Gary are saying, “Hey, we need more strong men out there.”
And when I say strong, I mean emotionally strong.
Steve 24:08
Yeah, absolutely. I want to call out Ted as well. Albuquerque, right? He is doing amazing work. I remember him being here with Mark Ainsworth and me, doing his reset. Kelly, I think, is his wife’s name. Most of the time he’s also promoting her and just how much his change has impacted her. That’s just so beautiful to see.
Like you said, the ripple effect. The two guys you mentioned earlier who were here were Marshall and Peter. I think they spoke to you about wanting to do what Gary’s doing, what Ted’s doing, in the Portland area.
We had this conversation about what are you going to do moving forward now that you’ve learned what you’ve learned and experienced what you’ve experienced. We said, “The world’s your oyster, man. Just go out and make it happen. Don’t wait for anybody to give you permission. Just go do it.”
And that’s where those guys got that inspiration. They were like, “Oh yeah, I can just go do it. I want to go do it.”
Doug Holt 25:31
Yeah, I think it’s trepidation. I think a lot of people are nervous. If I go out there and ask somebody or invite them into a group, they’re going to reject me. What are they going to think about me?
Last time, Gary reached out to me and sent me a text message. “Hey, can I buy 24 books?” Twenty-four copies of the book I wrote. He uses the book as a guide for the men he’s working with.
I told him, “No, you can’t buy them.” He was like, “What?” I asked him two questions. One, is this going to help men and their families? Yes. Second, how many books do you need? You can’t buy them because I’ll give them to you. You’re out there helping people. That’s why I wrote the book. That’s why I do what I do.
You could do anything you want in life. You’re a very successful businessman. You’ve had your career. You’ve done very well. This is the work we choose to do.
Steve 26:30
Yeah, we choose to do it. And it lights me up. The more I’m lit up, the more I can support. My cup is full, and I’m overflowing to others.
Robin’s had a rough week. Allergy season in Northern California has been really rough. She’s had a tough time. We’ve had a lot of conversations. I’ve been providing as much support as I can from afar, just being empathetic about her situation.
The way I can be that for her is because of what I’m getting from doing this work. She knows it. She’ll send me a message, “I get it. Just serve the guys.” A couple of the guys even thanked her. I said, “Please go back and tell Robin thank you for your sacrifices.”
Doug Holt 28:01
Robin’s an amazing woman. You guys are a power couple. You’re both doing the work and sharing what you’re learning.
We teach because we want to master. You get mastery through sharing it. If you can’t explain how something works, you don’t truly know it. That’s been my experience.
We’ve had conversations with companies that want their executives to go through The Alpha Reset and The Activation Method together. Imagine your tribe, your current tribe, going through an experience like this together. The conversations to be had, the memories to share, learning about someone’s vision, what they really want in life, what really turns them on about living, and then helping them achieve it.
In the previous podcast, Peter shared that it’s been 18 months since his Alpha Reset, and his world’s on fire. There have been trials and tribulations, of course, but he’s living into his vision. Most people I talk to don’t even have a vision. To have a vision and be living into it, that’s rare air. How great is that?
Steve 29:44
Absolutely. I wish you would have told me 24 hours ago about this white-labeling thing. One of the men asked me specifically, “I want to do something like this for my business. Do you guys do that?”
I’ve got to go back and tell him, yeah, we’re getting into that.
Doug Holt 30:06
Yeah, it’s something we’ve been asked to do for six years now, and it’s resources and bandwidth. As you know, I hear this from guys all the time. “You guys really should do this, that, and the other.” We deal with business owners. They have a ton of ideas. I’m like, “Brian, you’re right. We should do that. And what’s coming off the plates?”
I believe, Steve, and this is going to sound arrogant, but I hope it comes across with authenticity. We’re the best in the world at what we do. This experience, there’s no other experience like the Alpha Reset. I’ve yet to hear someone go, “Oh yeah, this is very similar.” It’s completely unique and completely different, and we have the ability to deliver it.
I think we have the best coaches in the world, and I am biased, because the men that we have, like yourself, like Coach Neil, like Mark, Andy, Mike, I could go on and on, you guys care. You really, truly care. All of the coaches we have check every box you could check. The box you can’t check in an application or life experience is the passion and the caring for the men.
That’s something I hear so much from the guys. I heard it in Japan again, “Man, you guys really care.” It’s like, yeah, that’s why we’re here. We could all be building widgets. We’re businesspeople. We could all be building other companies that would be more profitable, that would be bigger. But nothing is more heart-centered or fulfilling than what we get to do with these men.
Speaker 1 31:38
Yeah, Neil made a huge point of that this week. I want to acknowledge Neil, because I can’t do the magic, we can’t do the magic, just without each other. It was so extraordinary. He uses a similar term that you described. “We get to do this, guys.” It’s just an energy, and it’s infectious. Language matters. He’s great with it. He’s amazing.
“It’s grow time.”
Steve 32:10
Exactly. “Let’s grow.” “Let’s go.” That was incredible. It was amazing. Just a great colleague and a great friend.
Doug Holt 32:21
He is, man. I love that guy. I love you. We’re blessed with the people that choose to do this work.
Steve 32:26
Yeah. One of the guys, we asked for feedback at the end, of course, and they give us feedback. I can’t remember all the words he used, but it was like, “This is practical. It’s organized.” I don’t remember if he said simple, but it was a few different words. And then he ended with the word I think you’ll love the most. He said, “It’s beautiful.”
Doug Holt 32:54
I do love that.
Steve 32:56
I was just taken back when he said that.
Doug Holt 33:00
We always say when guys come to the event, trust the process. That’s what other men will pass on. People ask why others don’t talk about it, and it’s because they want you to have the experience. Just trust the coach. Trust the process.
We’ve had 100% of the men have an amazing experience. Those surveys you’re talking about are anonymous. Guys fill them out and give us feedback on how the experience was. We do this with all of our programs.
These are business owners. These aren’t exactly the guys who are just going to float you an easy grade, especially an anonymous one. These guys are used to finding problems. That’s what their brains are designed for. For TAM, I believe we have like a 96% rating from the anonymous surveys. For the Alpha Reset, it’s higher. I don’t remember if it’s 98 or 99, but it is extremely high. The only thing every once in a while we get rated down on is the food.
Unknown Speaker 33:59
Not this time. No, Peter took care of that.
Doug Holt 34:01
That’s right. I enjoyed some of the leftovers, man.
Steve 34:04
Yeah, and we had a chef that cooked the last meal professionally. So no, the food was off the charts.
Doug Holt 34:13
Yeah, who was an attendee of the event. I don’t want guys in the past to be upset.
Speaker 2 34:20
We fly in the executive chef.
Doug Holt 34:23
Exactly. It’s just an amazing experience. I would imagine doing this with a business partner, doing this with a cohort that you’re working with, the synergy that gets created, the conversations that are created, the bond. Work becomes fun, becomes easy, becomes light, and that’s where flow states happen.
Steve 34:43
Yeah. We talked at the beginning a little bit about when to do it. “I’m 25. I’m too young.” “I’m 74. I’m too old.” We asked the guys, “What is the one thing you would want to tell another man who’s thinking about this program?” Without hesitation, it was, “Do it now.” Don’t wait. What are you waiting for? Just do it.
Some of them said, “I regret I waited six months thinking about it.” But that doesn’t matter. Just do it. Whenever you choose to do it is the time you needed to do it. That will be the right time. Whether you’re 74, whether you’re 25, or you’re right in the middle. Whether you come from a privileged background or from a background you’re embarrassed about and had to rise from.
At the end of the day, like you said, the common denominator is there. It will thread its way through, and you’ll find the exact common denominator between every single man that’s here. It happens every time.
Doug Holt 36:00
Every time. Well said, sir. When is now the right time? Yeah.
Steve, I say this all the time, man, but thanks for all you do. It warms my heart to live this close to The Ranch and know it’s well taken care of. We have a 106-acre ranch. Steve and Neil guide these men. Just to know that these 11 men come from around the world not knowing what they’re getting into, and I’m able to show up at the end and see 11 men I’ve never met in real life just shining from ear to ear. You can see the stress melted off them.
You do an amazing job guiding these guys. The work that you and Neil did is nothing short of extraordinary. So thank you for all that you’re doing.
Steve 36:49
Looking forward. We’ve got another one coming in three or four weeks.
Doug Holt 36:53
I might not stay away that long this time. Can’t wait.
Gentlemen, as I say, in the moment of insight, take massive action. As Coach Steve said, when is the right time? It’s now. Now. It may not be TPM. It may not be the Alpha Reset, The Activation Method, the Ascension Blueprint, or any of our flagship programs, but do something.
There are a lot of programs out there. We’ve been around for almost a decade. We’ve done a lot of repetitions. This is what we do full time. That’s why we invested in a 106-acre ranch to run events for men. We’re in this. It’s not something you just throw up a website for and start talking to a camera. That’s not how we work. This stuff matters.
You matter. Your marriage matters. Your family matters. Your kids matter. You deserve the best. You deserve a proven process. And you deserve to start now.
Whatever that is, take the first step. Maybe it’s getting on a phone call. Maybe it’s grabbing a copy of my book. Maybe it’s reaching out so you can go through the program with somebody like Coach Steve and actually have that experience.
Look at the testimonials. See other men who are like you who got in front of a camera to share their story because the experience touched them so deeply. They’re talking to their former self, saying, “I wish I would have started earlier.” They want other guys to hear that message too.
And that’s my message to you. Whatever you’re going to do, start now. We’ll see you next time on the TPM Show.
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