Episode #1111
Most men believe that to fix their marriage, they need to fix their wife. Peter shares his journey from a breaking point where he hated his life, his job, and his home environment to becoming the leader his family actually wanted to follow. The transformation didn't happen by talking about his feelings or over-analyzing the past. It happened through a commitment to personal leadership and taking massive action.
Peter discusses the "weekly inventory" he uses with his wife and how he helped his son through a mental health crisis by being a grounded father. He explains how his wife went from not feeling emotionally safe for 22 years to dancing alongside him in the Nutcracker, all because he stopped waiting for her to change and started leading by example.
If you feel like you are checking all the boxes providing for the family and building the empire but you still come home to a house full of masks and surface-level conversations, this episode is a roadmap . You will hear how a man can regain his "mojo" and energy while using his wisdom to create a home base that is actually worth shipping off from every morning. Peter’s story is proof that you don't have to do this alone and that there is a version of your life waiting on the other side of your own excuses.
If you recognize yourself in Peter’s story and realize that the way you've been "handling" things at home isn't working, it’s time to stop the guesswork. We have developed a specific training to help you understand where the gaps are in your leadership and how to bridge them without the typical therapy jargon or endless talking. You can access the training and see exactly where your marriage stands by visiting https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales .
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Transcription
Peter 0:00
I hate my life. I hate my wife. I hate my kids. I hate my job. Rattle them all off. I hated absolutely everything.
Doug Holt 0:07
Your son's in probably his darkest moments, and he thinks, “I get to go talk to Dad.” I think that's what every guy wants.
Peter 0:14
If you have that hope, you know that there's a better future out there. You can build it. You can make it happen.
Doug Holt 0:19
Very few people, men especially, even fewer men, have a vision.
Peter 0:25
I've tried to change me, and it led her into a space where she felt comfortable to change herself as well.
Doug Holt 0:41
Hey guys, welcome back to another episode of the TPM show, and today we are joined by a very special guest, a man that's near and dear to my heart, who's actually gone through the steps that a lot of you guys listening to are curious about. We'll talk about that in a little bit, about his journey, where he's at now, and some deep inside tips that you guys can probably apply to your life today. Peter, thanks for being here, man.
Peter 1:04
Hey, thank you, Doug. Appreciate it.
Doug Holt 1:07
So we're fresh off an Alpha Reset. You did your Alpha Reset about 18 months ago here at the same exact Ranch, and you came back to volunteer time to help a group of other men, like 11, I believe, walk a similar journey?
Peter 1:22
Absolutely. It's been a really wonderful weekend, being able to not only cook and clean and serve as I could, but watching those 11 men grow out of the masks and the shells that they walked in with on day one. It's been a wonderful journey.
Doug Holt 1:36
Loving it different on this side.
Peter 1:38
Very different on this side, absolutely.
Doug Holt 1:41
Well, let's go back. So obviously I know a lot about your story, but someone listening may not, and maybe they can relate. Let's go back to when you found TPM. Where were you? What was your impetus for joining the movement, as we call it, and all the way through the Alpha Reset?
Peter 1:59
It was about two years ago when I was in the depth of my busy season at work. And, you know, we're talking busy season where you're working 100 hours a week. There are no weekends, and it continues on for months. Really busy season. And I was not really loving the way things were going.
One brief example, my dog actually passed away during that busy season, largely as a result of my own negligence because I was so busy. So it was really weighing on me, all these different items.
There was one day near the end, or perhaps at the end of the season, where I shut off the computer and I just sat back in my chair and I thought, I hate everything. I hate my life. I hate my wife. I hate my kids. I hate my job. Rattle them all off. I hated absolutely everything.
And as I sat there in the chair for a second, I thought, I've got to do something, not just live like this forever. I'm not exactly sure what caused it, but I found an ad for TPM right after. I started listening to some things and thought, there's a lot of wisdom here.
I'm kind of a self-learner, self-starter. So I ordered your book first off. That was my first connection with the various different steps and methods that we have. And I practiced everything. I went through the entire book during the summer. I seriously did everything that you would expect from that book, and it still felt like there was something missing.
So I started The Activation Method with Coach Steve, did that for the eight weeks, and it still felt like there was some underlying fear, some shame, some guilt that I needed to deal with.
So after talking with Coach Steve, I decided that The Alpha Reset was perfect for me. And that, I mean, it gave me so many skills. My life has been completely different, you know, a progression through all those different steps, but especially after the Alpha Reset.
Doug Holt 3:49
I haven't had the enjoyment and the blessing to be there during your Alpha Reset, which I remember very clearly and fondly. And for those guys that don't know what The Alpha Reset is, usually I explain what it is. I'd be curious from your seat, how would you explain it to a friend of yours over a cup of coffee?
Peter 4:09
I mean, it's such a life-changing and transformational experience, it's frankly difficult to define. So I usually say it's something like a men's retreat. But if I'm really getting into the details of what it was like, I say it's dealing with my own self, really understanding who I am, what I need to let go of, and removing some of the voices in my head.
There was a moment on day two where I was doing some journaling, and I thought, it's quiet. There was nothing going on because I dealt with my own emotions, and I was ready to transform.
Doug Holt 4:44
I love that. And I think it is really difficult to describe to somebody the gravity. I mean, you saw the 11 men. I get to see them when they're leaving, but you see them when they arrive, and they're all amazing men, and they're wearing masks, a lot of them. I wasn't here, but I've done enough of these Alpha Resets. The man that comes out the other side is almost a completely different person. It's like men find themselves again.
Peter 5:12
They certainly do. There was one guy who walked in and he was like, “Hey, how's it going?” Just putting on that instant mask of chumming up with everyone. But you could see it disappearing as he went man to man. And by day three, it was genuine. He really loved himself and the men he was with. It's such a wonderful experience.
Doug Holt 5:33
It is, man. It's hard for me not to be here. So 18 months ago you go through your Alpha Reset. What was it like getting back home?
Peter 5:51
I was filled with so much passion and drive with what I wanted to do, how I wanted to change life. I got to work immediately.
One thing that I thought of while I was here was my youngest son, who was seven at the time, and how he was wasting a lot of time in front of screens. And I thought, why am I not taking him outside and just playing ball? So that day, instantly, I had to act on that.
But I got into The Activation Method primarily because my marriage seemed like it was in a rocky spot. In hindsight, I think it was largely my own reflection onto her, and that we were fine, but it didn't feel like it was fine to me. So I put a lot of work and effort into my relationship with my wife.
And it's been amazing over the past 18 months. She is a very feminine person, very powerful, especially spiritually, and I don't feel like I gave her the space to be strong in those areas. So she never really felt emotionally safe.
When I was starting The Activation Method, she said, “I've never felt safe emotionally with you,” despite us being married 22 years at that point, which is a little strange to hear that, right? It was a tough pill to swallow. Exactly.
So I got to work. That's what it comes down to.
This was December of '24. The Nutcracker was in town, and she'd always wanted to go to the ballet, and I'd always push it off as, “Nah, I don't really want to do that.” But we participated in some of her hobbies. We went to The Nutcracker, and we had some conversations afterward in which she said something about the little girl inside of her always wanting to be a ballerina. And that was key for me. I was like, okay, great.
So I found an adult ballet class, mentioned it, and she took it. She's continued until now in ballet. She loves it. It's great for her body. It's great for her femininity as well.
In fact, a year later, so this is December '25, we actually participated in The Nutcracker. So I got to dance with her. How cool, man. It was really wonderful. It was great seeing her growth and being able to participate in her hobbies as well, and just have that closeness. Dancing is terrific.
And what I've also seen during this time, as I tried to give her that emotional safety and wish her well in all the different safety tests that we've had, one thing that Aaron said is that women need your leadership, they need respect, and they need emotional safety. And I've learned that that's really right. It's those three things.
So I've seen her step more into her femininity, where pinks and purples are coming back into her wardrobe. She's redecorated our bedroom to be more feminine. And I love it. She's on fire, and our relationship is much better than it has ever been.
Throughout all of this growth that she's had, she's doing the self-work as well, which is something that's never really been on her mind before.
And I credit it all back to what I learned in The Alpha Reset and how I've tried to change me, and it leading her into a space where she felt comfortable to change herself as well.
Doug Holt 9:07
Well, that's it, man. You showed up. So it's easy to tell someone what to do and to have that knowledge base of what people should do. In fact, it's easier than doing it yourself, right? But actions speak louder than words. And when men like you show up and you lead by example rather than saying, “Oh, you should do this, you should do that,” then you give her permission to also step into her light, right? That's the way I describe it. You've stepped into your light and you're shining brightly, and that gives other people permission to do the same. And you're leading her, and she feels safe around you.
Peter 9:41
Absolutely. And it's, you know, like I said, it was 22 years in which she'd never felt safe. And if I asked her today, I'm still not sure that she would say I'm 100% emotionally safe. Sure, we have a ways to go.
But I also like to do a weekly inventory with her. There's something that Tim Matthews has talked about. As we go through that process, the one thing that I have to do at the end is that I need her to give me a grade. She's never asked me for a grade. That's beside the point. I don't care about that. But I need that.
It's not something that she enjoys doing. So there was a time where she said, “I don't want to.” We skipped it for a couple of months, but I realized it helps me to connect emotionally with her when she gives me that simple grade.
At first it was, “Oh, you're a four, you're a two,” and so on. But as she felt more emotionally safe, it was 10 and 10 and 10 and 10.
This past week, I actually do it on Sunday. So I checked in with her as I was at this Alpha Reset, and I was like, “So what would you give me for a grade?” And she said, “Eight, but it feels really arbitrary. But if you don't ask me again next week, I'll just give you a 10.” I was like, okay, that's funny, that's hilarious, but I'm still going to ask you next week because being close here to her is what's really important.
Doug Holt 10:52
And when you guys are being playful, that tells me a lot, right? Because you can't be playful if you don't feel safe with somebody else, especially the feminine. If she doesn't feel like she can trust you with that playful energy, people aren't playful when they're arguing. They're just not.
But when you're in a space where you enjoy the other person's company, you trust them, then you can be playful and light. And to me, that's where the magic is. That's just so much more fun.
Peter 11:20
Absolutely. And I think that's the whole playfulness aspect. I mean, you get that with the group of men that we have together as well. When we're all feeling safe and when we're leaning into our own selves and our own emotions, that playfulness comes out. And it's such a joy because you don't get that normally in the corporate setting or anywhere else. Your group of guys seems a little more serious, but here we're allowed to bring out that playfulness again.
Doug Holt 11:43
I think when you get any group of guys together at first, there's a little bit of jockeying for position, trying to feel where you fit in. But when you go through an intense experience like The Alpha Reset or The Rising or one of our other experiences, you get to know the most common thing I hear from men is these other guys know me better than any of my friends, and I've had those friends for 30 years. But we have the same surface-level conversations.
And here you're talking about your kids, your wife, what's really going on in your life, the things that most people hide. And then when you realize a man like you isn't going to judge me for what I'm going to say, and at the same time I'm coming into my own identity where I don't care if you judge me, those things are happening at the same time. Then it allows for a reciprocal kind of bonding, if you will, where, hey, I accept me and you're accepting me. Cool. That reinforces it, and vice versa. And those bonds can last a lifetime.
Peter 12:45
Absolutely. I'm still talking to everyone from my own Alpha Reset. We meet monthly, and they're my accountability group. And when I need help or when I'm going through struggles, they're the ones that I call.
Doug Holt 12:58
That's awesome. We had an event here called TPM Legends, the guys that have been in the movement for five, six years, some of them. And they still talk all the time. We had an event here right at The Ranch for them. It was a blast to see those bonds just get better and better and better over time.
Because there's no pretense, right? You know that person to their core at this point, better than probably anybody else in their life does. And that just continues to get deeper and richer, which is an amazing experience.
So you got, I don't know if I should tell this, but I will. You got a nickname coming out of your Alpha Reset. It was “The Father.” And previously you were just listing off the list. “I hate my life. I hate my wife. My kids.” You were in that state of mind where you hated everything.
How has your relationship with your children evolved? I'm sure it's evolved, but has that changed as a result of the work you've been putting in?
Peter 13:51
It certainly has. I have four boys. They nicknamed me The Father for a variety of reasons, but primarily because the role of father is what I enjoy most in life. I love it. I love being the CFO after I get home from work.
My four boys are stretched out in various ages. I've got college down to elementary. So it was a bit of a struggle to figure out what each one of them needed and how I could respond to them. But I found a way with each one of them to give them the individual time that they needed and to show how I've changed through this process. And it really showed up.
Doug Holt 14:29
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Peter 15:22
My college-age son, when he came back from Christmas shortly after that reset, said, “I feel like I need to meet my father again because I have no idea who you are anymore.” Wow.
And I’ve spent a lot of time talking to him. I’ve had to do some crucial conversations as well when he’s not doing as well. But there are other ways as well. I had a middle school-age son who I felt wasn’t really enjoying life as much. So I started taking him to the concerts that I should have his whole life. Why was I keeping him away from experiences? So I made sure to put in extra effort into that, and it paid off dividends.
But there have been some difficult times as well. I’ve had one son who, unfortunately, on one specific day in the past year, said that he had a plan to commit suicide. Wow. And so, of course, he felt safe telling us about that, telling a counselor about it, so we were able to get a personal action plan and help him to feel safe.
But you can imagine what that did to someone like me, who really prides himself on being the father. It’s the same thing. It’s making the steps, and I have a vision of where I want him to be, and it’s making that personal safety for him. And he’s doing really well. He’s healing. Not to say that he’s totally there, but I think the biggest thing, honestly, is that I feel more safe within me and that I can feel calm despite the storm that’s going around.
Doug Holt 16:56
Good for you, man. Who do you turn to in those moments? Because I would imagine, for me, it’s easy to make a story about your shortcomings or think, what did I do wrong with this, and how do I fix this as soon as possible? Who do you turn to, Peter, or who did you turn to when this all went down?
Peter 17:18
Well, a big part of it was, and this gets back to me again, right, the research and the self-work. So I immediately set out to find, okay, what is going to work here? What’s not going to work? Because I had probably 20 different ideas of what I should do, what I could do to help him heal.
My very first step was AI, where I put in this full list and I said, “What’s going to work here? What’s not?” So that was really beneficial. But, of course, you have to talk with professionals as you’re going through this.
But there’s also the aspect that it has on me. And I’d say it was the same Alpha Reset group. So I got on a call with them and said, “I’m really struggling with this. This is pretty tough. Here’s the situation that’s going on.” And, of course, they had lots of empathy. They had some great questions for me and what might have happened. There were similar experiences that they were able to share. And it’s a real benefit to me.
Doug Holt 18:12
That’s awesome, man, that you had that outlet and that support. And I’m glad your son’s healing. He couldn’t have a better father, in my opinion, to guide him along that journey.
We’ve seen this so much. I talk about it maybe not as much as I could, but the number two cause of death in the United States for boys, let alone men, is suicide. And it’s just not talked about enough in the media. We hear about heart disease, cardio, strokes, Alzheimer’s, and they’re all bad things that need to be discussed and see if we can mitigate their effects. But people don’t talk about suicide quite as often.
I think if they did, then kids would feel better or safer coming to somebody to have that conversation. Absolutely. And like you said, kudos to you that your son’s in probably his darkest moments and he thinks, “I get to go talk to Dad.” I think that’s what every guy wants.
The way I talk about it at The Alpha Reset sometimes is, as men, we’re either the person our son comes to for guidance or our son’s going to go somewhere else for guidance. Who do you want to be? And how are you showing up?
So we’ve come full circle. What else has been happening for Peter?
Peter 19:30
A lot of good and a lot of challenge as well. I find that in 2025 especially, like I said, I was going to all those concerts, I was doing all the CFO stuff, and it was a lot of fun with the entire family. I did all of the things that I felt like I should have done years ago.
There were trips for spring break that we had or just getting away for a couple of days in a lake house. I actually had a backpacking trip with my wife. We went to Havasupai by reservation, which is something that I enjoy. Backpacking was not anything on her list, but she scheduled it because she wanted to participate in something that I really enjoyed. And it was just the two of us. I had Grandma fly out to watch the kids, and it was just a magical time.
Doug Holt 20:24
Good for you, buddy.
Peter 20:26
Really glad we did it.
Doug Holt 20:28
It’s awesome that she initiated, right? That’s one of the biggest complaints I hear from men, “My wife never initiates.” A lot of times guys are talking about intimacy, but that is a form of intimacy. Guys aren’t just looking to get laid. They want passion in their relationship. They want connection, and they want the woman in their life to shine.
Peter 20:49
Absolutely. She really is a wonderful woman, and it’s wonderful to me that she wants to participate in the things that interest me as well. And I try to return that with her. I feel like I’m living in the relationship that I’ve always wanted right now, where we can both benefit each other.
Doug Holt 21:09
That's amazing, man. I mean, that's what we all want. Somehow, a lot of us, myself at least, we lose ourselves along that. I felt like when I got married, I checked the box. Okay, marriage, done, right? Now let's go build the empire to provide for everybody. And then I had my looking-at-the-computer moment as well. You know, where is everybody for Doug? I'm here for everybody else.
Most men, I think… let me ask you this. What would you say to a guy who's having that computer moment in his relationship or his personal life where he's like, I'm stuck. Is there any hope? Or I'm just going to either A, I'm exiting whatever he's exiting without working on himself, or B, hey, this is as good as it gets. Just suck it up.
Peter 21:52
You know, I would probably say you can't do this alone. You've got to get some help. And of course, I would offer what those resources are and what's worked for me and so on. But if that feeling is in you, you've got to take action. You've got to do something. The same thing that happened to me, even without TPM at the time, I realized I can't sit here forever because it's not going to end well.
Doug Holt 22:15
I think it's about taking action, right? I think what a lot of men need is just hope, hope that it could be better. And when they feel that there's hope, then they can do the next step, which is taking action.
And I think men like you that are willing to share your story, like, here's where I was and here's where I am now, and it's glorious over here, guys, just letting you know, and you did a lot of steps to get there. It wasn't like you just snapped your fingers. You put the work in.
This Alpha Reset, this event, I'm going to be honest with everybody listening, it is not easy. It's not. But nothing worth having is, right? Kids are amazing. Are they easy? No. They can be at times, but they can also be our biggest challenges, and that's what makes it so rewarding.
And when I think of men like yourself, the way I describe it is refinding yourself, refining Peter. There he is. Great. It's almost like getting your mojo back, you know? A little bit of the energy we had in our 20s with the wisdom we have a little bit later. I'll be 49 in two weeks, so I'm glad I have more wisdom than I had in my 20s. And I feel like I've got a different energy now too, a love of life and a lease on life that I want more men to have.
Peter 23:33
Absolutely. And I feel like we all want that for everyone, the men that we see. We know men everywhere, everyone we encounter on the street, at the store, at our work. They're all struggling. Their struggles are everywhere.
And I feel like, at least in the past few months, as I've shown up the way that I have, I've changed who I am, and they're coming to me a little bit more. Maybe they're seeing, hey, there's that lighthouse over there. There's an example of who I want to be. And it's pretty great being able to help men.
Doug Holt 24:06
Well, you can feel a different energy from some people, right? And I think most guys just think, I want some of that.
And we talk about one destination, two paths. What happens to a lot of men that are lighthouses is they can reach their hand across and say, “Hey, let me help you.” And then men, in their own pity and despair, start to make up stories.
“Wow, it's easy for Peter. He's just naturally always happy. His wife is so lucky because she's always had safety. I bet his dad just gave him all this money, and he's successful. Life's just easy for Peter.”
And they make up these stories to make themselves feel better about their own condition and their own state, when it would be much smarter to say, “Hey, man, how'd you get where you got?” and actually have that conversation.
Peter 25:02
I feel like I'm living proof that anyone can do it. There are so many men who have had many more advantages, and they have greater capital than I have, or they had a better start, whereas I started in poverty and had to work my way out of things.
It doesn't come down to anything more than perhaps mindset. If you have that hope, you know that there's a better future out there, you can build it. You can make it happen.
Doug Holt 25:29
I'm proof of it as well, right? Exactly. I'm living a marriage that is better than I thought could be possible. And it's thanks to the work I've done, but my wife also does the work like your wife is doing. And we come together, and together we become kind of that power couple that I always thought we were going to be when we first got married.
And then that vision got shattered when things weren't going right. And of course, it was all her fault, as you know. And of course, she was having the same conversation. It's all his fault.
And then when you start looking at yourself and go, okay, what can I lead here? I talk about this. For me, I was running on the beach in San Diego, California, and I asked myself this question, “Have I been the best husband I could possibly be for the last 30 days?” And the immediate response was no.
And that was a light bulb moment for me. A lot of other things happened, but one of the decisions I made is I will be the absolute best husband I can be for 30 days. And then my plan was, if I'm the best husband for 30 days and it's still this way, I'll leave.
Two things happened. One, my wife, who at the time I thought was horrible and all the things that she was doing, she started to change, and I started to see her differently. Did she really change? Probably not, but I just started to look at things differently as I was looking at myself.
The second thing that happened is I couldn't go 30 days in that state. And I go, huh, maybe it isn't just her.
Peter 27:03
Did you make it three?
Doug Holt 27:03
I don't even remember now. And that's when you've got to start looking at yourself. And we start working on ourselves, and the people around us feel safer, and they go, “Hey, I want to work on myself too.” And let's better ourselves for ourselves, but also for each other.
And then your wife doing her work is going to benefit Peter, it's going to benefit you, right? And her and your kids. And your kids now have role models, two kinds. One is they're having role models who love themselves. They're getting to see what safety is provided for by a man, especially your boys. Here's how you provide safety for a woman.
They're also getting a chance to see that, hey, in a marriage or a relationship, even if things are good, they can get better, and you continue to do things for each other. And I just think it's fantastic. The young men that you'll be sending off into this world are going to have the opportunity of having a lighthouse like you and like your wife to role model after.
Peter 28:08
Thank you. It's been quite the ride. It's been a lot of hard work, sure. It always comes down to that. But gosh, just so worthwhile. Life is so much better on this side than that day I shut off the laptop.
Doug Holt 28:21
I get it. And it's better, it's more enjoyable, which kind of makes the hard times, I don't feel like it makes the hard times easier, but it makes some of the things that are difficult feel less difficult because your home base is taken care of.
Peter 28:37
Right, exactly.
Doug Holt 28:39
You can ship off from there.
Peter 28:40
Exactly. I mean, any challenge that hits at this point, it feels like an opportunity, whereas perhaps before laptop day, it felt like, oh my gosh, there's one more challenge, one more struggle. It's an exciting mindset. It's a much better way of living.
Doug Holt 28:57
That's awesome, man. What's next for Peter?
Peter 29:01
I've got work, of course. I'm passionate about my work, and I've got a lot of interesting opportunities that are coming up, so I'm just trying to dive into that as much as I possibly can right now. I've got a lot of different goals that I'm looking forward to in 2026. Most of them are really getting to a point where I can live out the vision in the future that I have going forward.
Being able to talk to my wife and say, “Hey, I've got this great vision. It's going to take some work this year.” So that's really what we're doing. But the father thing, right? I've been coaching young men for a long time, and so I'm looking for ways and opportunities that I can grow that particular area that I care about deeply, especially within my faith community and culture, and seeing how I can help them in a very tender area, I would say, a challenging area, using the same skills that I've learned through TPM. So a lot of good things are coming this way.
Doug Holt 29:59
I love it, man. Very few people, men especially, even fewer men, have a vision. And of those that have a vision, even fewer of them are able to live into their vision. I'm so happy for you, man. You are the living example of what we're trying to do. Our goal is to save the children by saving their fathers first, and you are doing just that, literally and metaphorically.
Peter 30:25
Appreciate it, Doug. And thank you so much for all of your help, for being a wonderful coach, and for helping me through this.
Doug Holt 30:31
I love it, man. Thank you for allowing me to. This is my vision.
Awesome, buddy. Gentlemen, as I always say, in the moment of insight, take massive action. If you hear Peter's story, I wish you were here to feel Peter's energy. Peter's story is not uncommon for a lot of us. You hit a breaking point. The difference in Peter's story, just like watching a movie, is he decided to do something about it. That's a movie worth watching. He took action.
It happened to be through TPM, which I'm biased about, no doubt about that. But it can be through a lot of other modalities and other things that are out there. He got a book. He read the book. He applied the items in the book, the action steps, which is so rare. Then he took action. He said, “Hey, I want to get some coaching.” And he went to an experiential event.
And now he's back here volunteering to go through that experiential event, volunteering to allow other men that opportunity that changed his life. So wherever stage you're at in that journey, take that next step. Don't wait to do it when you get home. Do it now. Take that massive action now when you've had some insight.
Guys, I'd love to see you here at The Alpha Reset someday, just so I can give you a hug or shake your hand and look into your eyes and see your smile. But if it's not with TPM, please do something. We need more great men out there. The world's changing, and I want more guys like Peter out on those front lines, talking to people, shining brightly. So selfishly, my kids have more role models to look up to, and it makes the world a safer place.
We'll see you next time on the TPM Show.
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